Kelly Rowland will be ''too shy'' to sing at her own wedding.

The 'Kisses Down Low' singer is busy planning her nuptials to Tim Witherspoon - which she says will be a very personal affair - but is ruling herself out of an appearance at the reception.

She told E! news: ''I really plan on it being a very special day between me and my sweetheart. Whatever we do we just want it to be special and between he and I and just make it something that we both remember and just for us. It's our gift to ourselves.''

Asked if she would sing, she added: ''I don't know. I think I would be a little shy to be completely honest.''

Kelly also said she knows who she'd like to choose for her wedding song, picking 'Sweet Love' singer Anita Baker.

She told Vibe.com: ''A wedding song? That's ours. [Tim] would probably be mad at me if I said it but we love Anita Baker, so I will say that.''

Kelly also laughed at the suggestion her former Destiny's Child bandmate Beyonce Knowles' daughter Blue Ivy could be her flower girl.